I had all intentions of dedicating this post to some very special moms I am fortunate enough to know, and tag them individually… and then I realized that every single person who is a female friend of mine on Facebook (I do know all my Facebook friends personally!) is a phenomenal parent, even to stepchildren and beyond….who has been an amazing role model, suffered great loss and heartache, and who has made so many sacrifices for her children and extended family.
to all my female friends and family: you are all so beautiful and fierce, and brave, and loved beyond measure! don’t ever think for one millisecond that you’re not the best mom ever….because we all do the very best we can, and our kids do the very best they can….and that’s about all anyone can ever hope for.
To those of you that know my story and my recent heartache, you know this is a very special Mother’s Day for me.
To those of you who have lost a child, my heart is broken in a million pieces for you today…and every day. And I will always love you and honor your bravery, even on those days you cannot bear to get out of bed and face the day.
To my female friends who are adult children of alcoholics, my heart knows your heart, and knows how difficult it is for you to pick out a card at the store, to keep faking that smile, and to keep trying to piece together a relationship from tiny crumbs of affection amidst insults and drama. You are loved, not in the way you should be… But you will find this love elsewhere. And I will always love you.
To those of you who are not able to have children, I don’t know your pain, but I am in awe of you and honor you as you have nurtured others. you take care of others in so many different ways. And I will always love you.
To my friends who have not yet had children, fasten your seat belt because you’re in for the ride of your life! It’s the toughest job you’ll ever love, the most thankless… And the most rewarding.
And to those of us who don’t have a mom to call or send a card or flowers to… I also feel your pain. It is less acute as the years fly by, but startling in its intensity in moments when you least expect it. We continue to soldier on, hang onto the good memories, and try to be the very best moms we can be.
Go out there and have a great day, enjoy your family, take pictures and laugh and hug and make memories! No matter what your situation… Know that you are loved.
~ Yvonne Elizabeth